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Frenetic Friday

February 10, 2018
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Grownups have stupid rules. Kids are supposed to act like kids. But grownups are supposed to know better. Do you still wonder why kids are confused? Especially boys, who are taught that they are despicable because they are male, and especially detestable if they are white, and most especially damnable if they are straight, and particularly worthy of torture and execution if they are Christian! White, male, straight Christians are the only only ones even capable of hate, right? That’s why teaching them to hate themselves and to change whatever they can (sexual orientation, perhaps, and/or religion) to become one of the “oppressed” and thus retain some human worth.


Once more into the fray dear friends once more it is Frenetic Friday! {Void where prohibited by law}

Yes its all about the culture wars tonight.

This just in:Six months after legalizing same-sex marriage Bermuda has reversed it’s ruling and has made marriage to be between a man and a woman once again. Now currently same-sex couples can only have civil ceremonies which gives them the same rights as married couples. Of course this turn around has caused GLAAD to issue this statement:

As the world faces a resurgence of anti-LGBTQ activism, Bermuda just earned the shameful recognition of becoming the first national territory to strip away marriage from loving and committed LGBTQ couples,” said Sarah Kate Ellis, President and CEO of GLAAD. “LGBTQ couples and their children in Bermuda should know that the global community of LGBTQ people and allies will stand with them in rectifying this unjust…

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I Don’t Like My Job Anymore

January 9, 2018
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“Kick it up a notch,” my supervisor says. Every day. Even if I have 70+ stops spread out across half the galaxy, it’s never fast enough.

I have only one speed: Deliberate. They knew that when they hired me.

If I hurry, I make mistakes, back-track, and the day takes longer. And the constant pressure to get it done faster only makes me want to do the opposite. And it’s so relentless!

I’m not as good as I used to be at handling heavy freight, either. I spend all my time off waiting for something to heal.

In the market again…

R.C. Sproul

December 15, 2017
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Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints (Psalm 116:15). We bid farewell to our elder brother, Dr. Robert Charles (RC) Sproul, as he has taken his final pre-Resurrection breaths to now be present with our Lord (2 Corinthians 5:8). His body will soon be sown (1 Corinthians 15:44), and…

via Dr. Sproul Goes To Heaven: Five Videos to Remember Him — Pulpit & Pen

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No Regrets

November 11, 2017
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via Doing the Right Thing Hurts Sometimes

Monday I will “fly solo” on my new route for the first time.  This is actually the first time in three years at FedEx that I have actually been trained for a FedEx route instead of just thrown into the deep water to sink or swim.  So there’s a lot less dread and terror this time, even though this is a Ground route instead of Home Delivery, and the tools that HD drivers enjoy (turn-by-turn directions, detailed maps, even GPS route downloads if you wish) are unavailable to me on the new route.

Training makes all the difference, and I wish every FedEx contractor could see that.  If you want to retain good drivers, for goodnessakes, TRAIN THEM properly!

No regrets.


Doing the Right Thing Hurts Sometimes

October 22, 2017
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Yesterday I had a tough choice to make.  Little and big decisions often come down to doing what is right vs doing what is easy.  It would have been a whole lot easier just to go along for the ride rather than take a costly stand for what is right.

FedEx Ground, as some of my readers know, is a contracted service.  Contractors competitively “buy” rights to provide FedEx Ground services for certain territories, and the competition at times can become pretty fierce.  There are “politics,” rumors, gossip, games, and sometimes, deceptive and brutal trickery in the process.  Okay, whatever.  That’s between the contractors, and not my concern as a driver, right?


Some contractors are willing to involve their drivers as pawns in their little battles, and, just like in chess, the pawns always go first, suffer the greatest losses – but even a pawn and take out a king under the right conditions.  It’s completely unfair and unethical for FedEx contractors to involve drivers in their disputes and spats with competing contractors, but that, apparently, doesn’t stop some contractors from doing it.

What they didn’t count on, though, was one pawn with a conscience.

One pawn didn’t play along, didn’t take the easy path, and was willing to pay the price.  My former contractor/employer has been nothing but good to me, and we have even become friends.  So doing the right thing yesterday was especially painful for both of us.  But I can have no part in any sneaky, deceptive scheming in his battle with another contractor over control of the territory I was servicing.  This is a risk any contractor assumes when he or she involves drivers in anything other than driving.

I have hurt my friend.  I have hurt my fellow drivers that work for my friend and former boss.  I have hurt the new contractor that is managing that territory.  And I have even hurt the customers in the area I serviced, since whoever takes my place has to learn everything from scratch.  I have hurt myself, too, in lost seniority, and the loss of the privilege of taking the truck home after work.

I’m sorry for the pain I have caused, but I can’t be sorry for the decision I made, and would make again under the same circumstances.

If a king falls because of the actions of one little pawn, then let it be a lesson to all the other kings in all their games.

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Social Media and Mental Health

July 18, 2017

So I got on Diaspora and dumped Facebook (and Google) because of all the paranoid geeky stuff about them manipulating news and spying on people and using all your stuff to take over the world.

I ran away from systemd on Linux because of all the paranoid geeky stuff I read on Diaspora about how Red Hat and Microsoft (and the NSA, FBI, Illuminati, and who knows, some alien race from the Eighth Dimension) are using systemd on Linux to take over the world and enslave Linux users.

As it turns out, in spite of Monstanto, GMOs, vaccines, the Left, the Right, Microsoft, Google, the Borg, Canonical, Red Hat, and systemd, my computer and my privacy are as safe as anyone who ever connects to the Internet on any device or platform can expect to be.

Who is manipulating who here? Who is really thriving on the fears of others here?

People told us to stop flying the American flag and stop showing our support for the military and first responders or else we could be targeted for violence, blacklisting, discrimination, etc. Did I take down my flag? Hell no. Let them come. I’ll gut them if they bring their threats beyond my front door.

And guess what else? I’ve got a systemd-equipped Linux distro running because it works better on my machine than the two systemd-free distros I tried. And y’know what else? I rejoined Facebook today. I’m using it with my eyes open and sensible precautions in place. I’ll keep my Diaspora but I’m making big changes there. All that paranoia and conspiracy stuff is not good for people who have ever been diagnosed with depression, whatever the cause.

All I can say now is,

I didn’t take my flag down. And I’m not avoiding systemd, Facebook, Google, or any other tool that serves me.

I’ll use the Internet wisely, my systemd-equipped Linux distro wisely, and Facebook wisely. Just like I do with my car, my firearms, my power tools, and anything else that requires a little thought and caution. I’m not throwing away all the perfectly good tools that make modern life so nice and so rich.

I’m through running away from phantoms. If and when the time comes to fight, against whoever the bad guys are, I’ll fight and die like a Klingon in glorious battle. In the meantime time, all you anti-vaccine, anti-Google, and anti-everything-that-isn’t-home-grown-or-home-made people can kiss my grits.

Hey, I just had a thought…. maybe my medicine is working now after all!

Issues With WordPress

July 17, 2017
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For almost four days now, I can’t access the WordPress.com web site at all. I post via e-mail, so that’s why this post is making it to the blog. But I can no longer moderate replies, read the blogs I follow (unless I get them emailed to me), or manage my sites at all.

I tried downloading the WordPress desktop app, but it’s 64-bit only so I can’t use it on my old 32-bit desktop. The fancy hand-me-down 64-bit ‘puter had a hard drive failure so I resurrected an ancient Dell Dimension and got it running wonderfully with Linux Lite! But WordPress.com won’t load in any browser from here for some reason.

If your comment is awaiting moderation, or if I fail to respond to a question, rest assured it’s temporary… unless WordPress remains unreachable/unloadable, in which case I may be moving the whole kit and kabootle to another site.

Please pardon the inconvenience, and hope that it’s temporary!

Frenetic Friday

July 15, 2017
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The “culture war” is still as intense as ever, even without a Democrat in the White House to promote this insanity. From the Church of England to popular literature for kids, it goes on… and you wonder why I’m Amillennial? 😀 Anyway, my friend “Keachfan” describes a couple of the current battles in this war.


Here it is again Friday are you feeling frenetic? I myself am feeling that way and so let’s get started.

Well the Church of England is slowly but surely slipping loose from whatever moorings it had that attached it to scripture. The Church of England has announced that it will create special liturgical services for transgendered people. Now please let us take a moment and think what this means, they are creating a special worship service for people who think they are a different gender than what is their biological sex. A worship service. Let me say that again, a worship service. A worship service to welcome their transition. Now of course this wasn’t a unanimous vote there were those that opposed this but they were overwhelmed by those that have gone with the world. Read the full story here

And sticking to this subject seems that according to Zinnia…

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Great Quote to Accompany Amos

July 2, 2017
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You know the little Old Testament book, Amos, right? It’s a favorite of mine. Today in our church bulletin a great quote was printed to accompany our lesson from Amos 5:18-27:

Why do people at church seem like cheerful, brainless tourists on a package tour of the absolute? Does anyone have the foggiest idea what sort of power we blithely invoke? Or, as I suspect, does no one believe a word of it? The churches are children playing on the floor with their chemistry sets, mixing up a new batch of TNT to kill a Sunday morning.

It is madness to wear ladies’ straw and velvet hats to church; we should all be wearing crash helmets. Ushers should issue life preservers and signal flares; they should lash us to our pews. For the sleeping god may wake someday and take offense, or the waking god may draw is out to where we can never return.

-Annie Dillard

Why Reformed Baptist Churches Should Get Out of the SBC

July 2, 2017
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*Editor’s note: This post first appeared at Barbwire and is being reposted here with permission. The US military is unequivocally constructing and implementing change. Same-sex marriages and policies on gender identity (confusion) is a recurrent trajectory for the Department of Defense (DOD) that will certainly cause contemporary challenges to Christians in the Armed Forces. While…

via Southern Baptist Military Chaplain Conducts ‘Transgender Policy Briefing’ — Endorser Does Nothing! (Audio) — Pulpit

I have had my own battles with “identity,” partly because of abuse as a child by a parent and sibling, so I really do appreciate the struggle and turmoil and I’m not without compassion and understanding for SGA / gay / trans / etc.

But Reformed and conservative churches within the Southern baptist Convention need to reconsider remaining in a denomination which has all but forsaken her Reformation heritage and embraced ideas which are opposed to the clear teaching of Scripture.  There are little pockets of good Reformed and conservative churches and teachers in the SBC, but continued membership in the denomination is tacit approval for incredibly stupid stuff that SBC committees and agencies do.  This is just one example.  Consider the publishing house’ peddling of damnable heresies like Modalism (in this year’s VBS curriculum) and “prosperity gospel” bullshit (sorry, no better choice of words in English for it).


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